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Why are women so bitchy?
I am of the female sex, that is obvious. But one thing that has always affected me is the bitchiness of women. Mind you, I am guilty of being bitchy. Especially in my younger years… the things that used to come out of my mouth - I was certainly on the path to being smacked in the teeth. After a while, I had a epiphany and decided that no one in life gets far by being bitchy. And no one gets far calling other women “bitches” for no reason. I found it easier to call women I did not know a bitch. But when a few people calling themselves friends did and said questionable things - it wasn’t hard to hold back.
On Sunday, I went to pay for something at Live Clothing in Perth. I saw that someone was already being served and that only one girl was serving so I formed a line. However, after 10 seconds of my line-forming, a young girl and her really short friend who I could probably hurt just by sitting on, came up and put their items on the table ready to be rung up. I was pissed off that she had pushed in front of me but tried to remain polite. I said “Excuse me, I was here before you.”. However you can say that nicely without seeming like a bitch to the receiver I am not sure. She looked at me and narrowed her eyes and said “But you weren’t standing here.”. Her short friend looked at me - giving me a sort of “ghetto” look which I’m sure would have involved a lot of “ho!” and “slut!” had I gone any further with this confrontation.
I was slightly shocked - although I was partly expecting it. It’s not hard to find young women who are genuinely nice but it is hard to find them in Live Clothing stores.
On a night out the week before, a “friend” started disclosing unwanted information to me about two close people in my life. I am being gentle. Because, by god, that sentence could read something far more malicious. Ok, so by “disclosing unwanted information” I mean she was having a bitch to me. And by “two close people in my life” I mean my boyfriend and my best friend. So now you can probably understand me just that bit more. It was unwarranted, and so was the surprising part of her rant - she was telling me lies about events or occurrences that happened right in front of my face - as if I had never been there in the first place. It was shocking and upsetting as you could probably imagine.
It is sad, I don’t really understand the need for dramas. Can’t chicks just get along? Can’t everyone just get along in general? So much stress and shit like this is because people have crap attitudes and obviously blab to the wrong person about certain things. Why are women so bitchy?
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Entry Filed under: Feminism, Gender Roles, Women
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